1.
I feel that I am equal partners with my spouse in our relationship.
Almost Never Seldom Sometimes Usually Almost Always
2.
I do things daily to give love to my spouse.
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3.
My spouse knows what it takes to make me happy and does it.
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4.
I am as concerend about my spouse's happiness as I am about my own.
Almost Never Seldom Sometimes Usually Almost Always
5.
I am positive and hopeful about my life and our relationship.
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6.
I have a profound honor and respect for my spouse.
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7.
I feel I am in this relationship for the long term.
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8.
I put all other relationships (including children, friends, work, and social) secondary to our relationship.
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9.
I am willing to look at my behaviors and change where necessary to ensure we have a good relationship.
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10.
I am clear about what it is I want to achieve in my marriage.
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11.
I feel that my partner listens to me and understands me.
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12.
I am able to resolve conflicts in my relationship without offending or being offended by my partner.
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13.
I consistently exercise my body, mind, and spirit.
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14.
I take responsibility for my feelings and do not blame my partner for "making me feel" good or bad.
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15.
My spouse and I spend recreational or designated time together every week.
Almost Never Seldom Sometimes Usually Almost Always