Marriage is Worth It

In our conversations with interested couples, they've said they want to be happier in their marriage; they want to be better partners and lovers. They want to communicate better. They wish they were on the same page in their parenting. They yearn for the marriage they thought they would have.

Our relationship coaching program leads them directly to their marriage dream, saving them years of trying to figure it out on their own.

Relationship Coaching-Plus is based on an action orientation with our coaches determined to facilitate the improvements you want in your marriage as rapidly as possible.

All courses are taught live, online, with an on demand replay option following each session.

"This program has transformed our marriage! We have been provided tools to use throughout the rest of our marriage to build and maintain a unified and loving relationship together. We often refer to what we have learned in class when we interact with each other. The information provided was well researched and presented, the presenter was professional and well informed and well versed on every topic he taught, and our marriage is now a top priority to both of us. We now realize how happy life can be when we are unified with the one we love and konw that they love you." - I.H., Nevada

"Great program! Whether you are just starting in marriage or 50 years into a marrige you can learn concepts that will change your marriage for the better." - J.W., Utah

"I enjoyed the concept of comfort zones and the closeness that has been restored with my wife. I will share my experience with my co-workers and church associates with my highest recommendations." R. Oppelt, Boise, Idaho

"I enjoyed the comfort zone concept and the peace in forgiveness...Too many other seminars are full of "fluff," but not this one, it was just right for me!" K. Thersted, Clearfield, Utah

"I enjoyed learning about the intimacy dance. I recognized it in our marriage, but didn't know how to handle it." - A. Clark, Menan, ID.

"I found the Intimacy Regulation model particularly helpful. It helped me put some feelings into words that were previously unidentified." - C. King, Sequim, WA.

"It was extremely hard for me to look my spouse in the eyes for such a long period of time, but that was an amazing break through for me. The "zone" model was great. It felt validating." - S. Bishop

Isn't it about time you invested in your marriage? Your Marriage is Worth It!

MIWI-1: Basic Foundation Principles - This session lays a groundwork for your marriage. Couples learn about the marriage creation process, unspoken contracts, what they and their partner want in their marriage, and how to avoid the nuclear nine. Couples walk away with exercises and ideas on how to put their new learned concepts into play. If you miss a concept or want to reinforce another, you can watch the video on demand playback

MIWI-2: Responsibility and Love Principles -Couples learn the principles of successful marriages and are given tools to start implementing them in their marriages. The new concept of intimacy regulation is presented and couples start using their new intimacy regulator to help each understand how they regulate intimacy and to bring them closer together. Like all other sessions, session 2 can be a stand-alone session.

MIWI-3: Sacrifice and Spirituality Principles - Session 3 involves individual concepts and how they impact the relationship. The concept of self-esteem and true worth are disccused, along with the idea of self-pursuits. Mental health issues such as ADHD, depression, anxiety, are looked at and how they impact the relationship. Couples walk away with "how-tos" on how to understand these issues and make their relationship even stronger.

MIWI-4: Partnership and Goals Principles - Session 4 will help you understand what it takes to build an equal partnership for your marriage success, what that means and how to help each other accomplish the most in your marriage. You will then be introduced to the concepts of setting relationship goals that address the success of the marriage as well as all other principles of marital success. You will begin to create a marital success plan that will guide your every decision and action. This is critical for getting on the same page and staying on track when everything around you demands your attention and tries to divert you from success.

MIWI-5: Communication and Commitment Principles - Session 5 begins with what most people believe is the foundation of good relationships: communication. You will learn the fundamentals of what every person is looking for in good communication, how you and your spouse communicate and how to improve your communication. Much of good communication stems from knowing that you are secure and safe in your relationship. This security comes directly from knowing that you and your spouse are 100% committed to each other and to the success of the marriage above all other relationships. Many people think they are committed simply because they have been married for years. What you may discover is that there are various areas that every marriage, including yours, need to improve in commitment.

MIWI-6: Recreation, Health and Balance Principles -Session 6 brings all the previous principles together and includes how to begin having fun, taking care of yourself, and creating balance in all your daily activities and busy life. Balance is critical in everything we do, and we achieve balance by knowing where we are going and focusing on accomplishing that, and having fun along the way. Learn how to rekindle or strengthen the friendship and connection in your marriage. Learn how to enjoy each other maybe for the first time. Learn to fall in love again for ever.

MIWI-ALL *Best Value* - This includes all 6 sessions above, plus 1 hour of live, individual couples coaching to discuss issues, remove roadblocks, and move you forward to the best marriage possible. Your marriage plan comes together in the 6-part series. Use your 1-hour coaching block to help create and implement your plan. The 60 minute coaching block can be split into two 30 minute blocks if desired.

Saturday Date-Night Sessions (Or watch them on demand) -

Course ID#:	MIWI-1	MIWI-2	MIWI-3	MIWI-4	MIWI-5	MIWI-6	MIWI-ALL
Course Title:	Basic Foundational Concepts	Responsibility and Love	Sacrifice and Spirituality	Partnership and Goals	Communication and Commitment	Recreation, Health and Balance	Entire Package
Click To Register:	MIWI 1	MIWI 2	MIWI 3	MIWI 4	MIWI 5	MIWI 6	MIWI All
Course Dates: (Note: Ea course is also available on demand)	TBD	TBD	TBD	TBD	TBD	TBD	Same as ea course Plus 1 hour scheduled marriage coaching
Course Times	TBD	TBD	TBD	TBD	TBD	TBD	Same as ea course
Course Location:	Live Interactive Online Format	Same as MIWI-1	Same as MIWI-1	Same as MIWI-1	Same as MIWI-1	Same as MIWI-1	Same as MIWI-1
Equipment Requirements:	Access to Internet and speaker phone or 2 handsets	Same as MIWI-1	Same as MIWI-1	Same as MIWI-1	Same as MIWI-1	Same as MIWI-1	Same as MIWI-1
Retail Value:	$150	$150	$150	$150	$150	$150	$1000
Your Cost:	$99	$99	$99	$99	$99	$99	$499

Questions? Call us at (801) 544-2470.

What is Relationship Coaching-Plus!

Coaches in the Marriage is Worth It program are not your average marriage advocates. Each coach is a Ph.D. or master level expert with over 500 hours experience working face to face with couples just like you. While they enjoy the knowledge of theory, education, and clinical expertise, they are practical and real in their approach working with couples. You won't hear a Marriage is Worth It coach ask, "How does that make you feel?" No one talks like that in the real world of marriage. Relationship coaches-plus are real, results oriented, and working for you and your marriage.

A former student in a regular coaching program decided to opt-out when the presenters could not address a spouse's substance abuse issues. While the presenters had background in communications they fell short in addressing clinical needs. Another left when depression could not be addressed....as experts in the marriage field, the Marriage is Worth It coaches understand that many of the marital issues faced are due to other influences that need to be addressed.

So, what is the difference between typical marital therapy, regular relationship coaching, and relationship coaching-plus?

Areas	Stereotypical Therapy	Regular Relationship Coaching	Relationship Coaching-Plus
Process	Problem exploration, looking for explanations, and solutions.	Solution exploration and results-based.	Problem identification, understanding the effect on marriage, solution creation, solution implementation, and follow-up. Implement the Triple-E Process: Education, Explore, and Experience.
Marriage Advocacy	Many therapists are patient advocates, looking at the needs of each individual.	Relationship advocates, looking at the needs of both partners.	Beyond advocacy, marriage maintenance and improvement is #1. Coaches bring an atmosphere of hope and positivity.
Training and Credentials	Bring theory and academia learning to real world situation.	Practical, real world, experienced training. Consultants.	Ph.D. level or 10 yrs plus experience in the trenches working in the real world of couple's consultation and relationships. Trained in the Triple-E process, practical and results oriented .
Training Focus	Look at past events and situations to determine who or what was the cause of the problem.	Concentrate on the present and look to the future.	Understand how the past affects your present struggles, how the systems in your life maintain functioning and keep you from progressing, and create solutions to take you into a brighter more satisfying marital future.
Process Duration	Can be open-ended with some therapists.	Average 3-6 months.	6 weeks of world-class education and 3 to 6 months of ongoing support to help bring about desired change.
Approach	Exploration is based on clinical study. Often diagnosis or pathology is considered.	Education and skill based.	Employ the Triple-E process of educating, helping you understand how concepts apply to you and giving you experiences to integrate education and your situation.
Individual Issues	Considers the individual issues that might be impacting the relationship.	Typically, does not consider individual issues.	Considers individual issues as they impact the success of the marriage, identifies possible solutions, works to integrate the individual progress as part of the marital wholeness process.
Supplemental Materials	Usually none. May have weekly assignments to work on.	Books, workbooks, homework, journal.	Manuals, books, workbooks, homework assignments, application discussion.
Whose the Expert	Typically the therapist.	You are coached to find the answers yourself.	Our relationship-plus coaches bring real-life and professional expertise to assist you in coming up with the answers that you already have within you. You'll know when it comes from within and you will own it as your own.
Desired Outcomes	Looking for explanations and providing solutions for marital situations.	Identify explanations on why your marriage is not performing and provides action plans.	Concrete, and mutually agreed upon outcome objectives that the two of you create together and which gives you a clear vision of what you are trying to achieve as a couple, why you are trying to do so, and how you are going to do it.
Ongoing Support	Available as needed.	Ongoing coaching usually available.	Mentor coaching to walk you step by step through the implementation of your marital relationship objectives.

Special Two-Day Marraige Retreat
Sept 30-Oct 2, 2010, Ogden Canyon, Utah
Join us for a special couple's retreat. Spend a weekend loving your spouse and learning new ways to communicate. Find out how you regulate your intimacy and how to make the most of your marriage relationship.
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